Are we “˜Winners’ or just “˜Losers’ making excuses all the time?


The Winner is always part of the answer; The Loser is always part of the problem.


The Winner is always has a program; The Loser always has an excuse.


The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”; The Loser says, “That is not my job.”


The Winner sees an answer for every problem; The Loser sees a problem for every answer.


The Winner says,” It may be difficult but it is possible”; The Loser says,” It may be possible but it is too difficult.”


When a Winner makes a mistake and says,” I was wrong”; When a Loser makes a mistake and says,” It wasn’t my fault.”


A Winner makes commitments; A Loser makes promises.


Winners have dreams; Losers have schemes.


Winners say,” I must do something”; Losers say, “Something must be done.”


Winners are a part of the team; Losers are apart from the team.


Winners see the gain; Losers see the pain.


Winners see possibilities; Losers see problems.


Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.


Winners see the potential; Losers see the past.



Winners are like a thermostat; Losers are like thermometers.


Winners choose what they say; Losers say what they choose.


Winners use hard arguments but soft words; Losers use soft arguments but hard words.


Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things; Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.


Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would, not want them to do to you”; Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”


Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.




Self Responsibility – ‘If it is to be – then it is up to me’